Sometimes i wonder why i cannot be like my friends. What have i done wrong to deserve this? I'm 19 now and soon going to be 20, why is he treating me like a kid? I know he loves me dearly and cares for me but what's with the "no trust treatment"? What i hate to hear is when he says ''U dunno how to stay home is it''? or "u dunno how to come home?" when i'm outside. The way he said as if i'm alwayz hanging out with my friends but the true fact i seldom go out for recreational activities and whenever i have the time i will be spending it with my GF or I'm either busy with school or working. I understand there is a confusion between our presence at home. When i'm at home, he is working or vice versa and he should'nt make any assumption about me going out. This is not fair for me neither I'm trying to be smart nor rude to him so i usually keep myself quiet when he has doubts about me. I feel at my age now i don't need a punctual curfew as i know how to take care of myself. I understand he is being protective but what about letting me to explore my youngadulthood? I'm not trying to be biased but it is tough to explain to him this whole issue than to my mom. I feel comfortable to talk with her cause i feel like im treated maturely whenever we have a conversation. No doubt, he is a good father but why doesnt he trust me. How long will this thing gonna continue? Will it stop when I'm 21 or It will never end? haiz..help me!
